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It is so simple to find a love that is real and true. The most important thing to remember is to be honest and be the true you. Don’t put on a facade and pretend to be something you are not. If you are honest from the start a lot of problems that can happen in a relationship would be avoided altogether. A lot of people pretend to be someone they are not just to impress others, or try to get someone to like them. Well you can only keep that up for so long before the truth comes out. That’s when everything starts to go wrong with relationships. The other person feels betrayed and lied to. Even if you think well he or she loves me now, they won’t leave me. Think again. It may not be right away but eventually the relationship can suffer irreversible damage. How can you find someone who truly loves you for who you are if you are acting like someone else?

If you are honest from the start and just be your true self, you will find someone who loves you for who you truly are. You don’t have to pretend to be anyone else and you will be much happier. Your partner will be much happier and you will stay together longer if not forever.

Just imagine what kind of relationship you will have just by being your true self. Just because you have a crush on someone or think you are in love with someone who has no interest in you does not mean that you will not find someone that will love you for you and no other reason. It all comes down to self esteem and how much love you actually have for yourself. You cannot love someone fully or someone cannot love you unless you have a love of yourself first. You are a unique and wonderful individual. There is someone out there for just you.

Where ever you go and what ever you do, just remember to be yourself. No one is perfect and if you make a mistake, get up, dust yourself off and keep going. It is not the end of the world. You can find that perfect someone that’s just for you. Don’t get discouraged. As you go about your business in a happy and carefree manner it will happen when you least expect it.

Debbie Vilardi
Ematchusa.com