This movie is about long distance relationships. Which we all know rarely works. That was the theme of the romance part of romantic comedy. The comedy part definitely stands out. Not only were the two main characters Erin (Barrymore) and Garrett (Long) extremely funny but the supporting cast may have surpassed their humor. Of course Drew & Justin also had to carry the romance part of the movie.

Garrett's room mate Dan played by Charlie Day was hysterical. Dan and their friend Box played by Jason Sudeikis provided most of the comedy in this film. These two men were no less than spectacular with the humor that they added to this movie. Christina Applegate who played Erin's older sister also added to the fun in this film. She looks great and did a great job in adding a lot of humor to the film.

If I even think about this film I start to laugh. If you are into comedy then you must see this film. The comedy definitely out weighs the romance in this movie. However the romance is still there and who can play it better than Drew Barrymore.

Just go see this movie. It is definately worth the money.

Debbie
Ematchusa.com

Some of the signs that the relationship is over can be pretty obvious.

If you dread the time you spend at home or with your spouse that is a pretty good indication that there is a serious problem.

If you are not making love anymore you, are just having sex because you feel it is your responsibility or so you do not want your spouse to think something is wrong. This can also be because you like sex. Alot of people stay together longer if the sex is good.

When all you do is agrue about the stupidest little things. Arguing about things that are not important to anyone is a big indication of hidden resentments.

These are just a few obvious problems. Most people do not know how to express themselves and tell thier spouse when they are not happy. They are afraid of how they will react. If you are honest and non judgemental when expressing your feelings, your spouse should be understanding. If you really want to work things out instead of breaking off the relationship then you need to learn how to communicate to each other.

On the other hand if you do want to break off a relationship the process is the same. Be honest and non judgemental. Do not accuse or blame. Sometimes people just grow apart or the lack of communication builds up resentments and hurt feelings. Hurting someone's feelings is never easy to do. You however have to think about your feelings too. Do not live in a bad relationship just so you do not hurt someone else. That is not fair to either one of you. If you do not love your partner the way they deserve to be loved than you are stopping them from finding someone who will.

A lot of people may not agree with this post but it is my opinion and experience. I may not be a doctor or psycologist but I have had experience in long and short term relationships. I can go on and on on this subject but I want to keep this short.

Just remember to be honest with yourself and your partner. Sometimes things just do not work out. Know the signs, accept, and move on. It is really not the end of the world. Love yourself and you will find someone who truly loves you for who you are.

Debbie
Ematchusa

Jennifer Garner was very good in the movie also. I am sure a lot of men watch the movie for her. Just do not tell that to your date. I think the the chemistry between them was not as good as Matthew and Kate Hudson. I guess that goes to show you can't pick other peoples significant others.

The plot was like the old Scrooge where Conner Mead (McConaughey) is a huge playboy without considering the women's feelings. He is such a horn dog. Anyway when he goes to his brothers wedding and starts to mess everything up his dead uncle comes to pay him a visit and proceeds to tell him he will be visited by three ghosts.

Of course the first is the ghost of girlfriends past, the second is the ghost of the present, and the third is the ghost of the future. It is a heartwarming but very funny story.

It has something for everyone. Matthew McConaughy for the ladies, Jennifer Garner for the men and love & humor for both. There were times I laughed outloud.

Now that is the kind of love story I like. Mostly laughs and only a few tears. I would recomend this as a stay at home movie date.

Debbie
Ematchusa.com

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The New Orleans Saints won the Superbowl. Yea, they really deserve it. They have worked hard all season and stayed undefeated for most of it. I really think that is great. Its the first time in history that New Orleans won the Superbowl.

I just wanted to say congratulations to the Saints!!!!

Debbie
Ematchusa.com

This super bowl should be an exciting game. The Colts are hot and so are the Saints. The Colts and Peyton Manning have been to and won a super bowl before. Lets see if he Saints can take them down. The Saints defense has a way of getting to the quarterback and taking him down. They put a lot of pressure on Bret Favre last night. Even a season veteran like Bret can crack under the pressure. I wonder what team he will end up on next year or will he really retire. Well that is a whole other blog story.

Will the Saints be able to put the pressure on Peyton Manning. I am predicting yes. The Saints are a very good football team this year and have gone most of the season undefeated. The adrenalin rush should be so massive for getting to the super bowl for the first time they are going to be unstoppable. What a defense they have.

As for the offense, how about that Drew Brees. Wow he is on fire. I just think the Saints are all around on fire. They can drive that ball down the field. I really love this game. Especially when two really good teams go head to head. This super bowl is going to be a good one people, so lets get the party started. Woo Hoo!

One last opinion is that the Pro Bowl should not be played before the Super Bowl. Are they crazy? I know they do not play as hard in that game as the regular season but what if a guy going to the Superbowl gets hurt in this definitely exhibition game. That game for me gives me one last craving satisfied before there is no more football until next season. After the big adrelian rush of the Superbowl the pro bowl is a last hurrah of the season. That does not make any sense to me why they would do the pro bowl first its just stupid. Well that's my opinion about the subject. Enough about that.

I just want to end with GO SAINTS!!!!!

Debbie
Ematchusa.com

Merry Christmas,

Debbie
Ematchusas.com